Asking for a divorce never has the perfect timing.
When you discuss the topic of divorce during the holidays, the stress level can be tenfold. It can cause a great deal of turmoil for your partner and children.
It is essential to consider all the pros and cons of asking for a divorce during the holidays, especially if children are involved.
Here are some thoughts I often share with my clients when they are considering asking for a divorce during the holiday season:
- If you are looking for reasons to stay your marriage – consider holding off asking during the holidays to use this time to reflect and look deeper into the situation
- If you are just not able to go through another holiday, consider the reason why and, depending on your answer decide if you want to ask for a separation
- The well-being of your children trumps everyone else’s – asking for a divorce during the holidays can be emotionally frightening to your children
- Will asking for a divorce increase or decrease the stress and arguing in the home? If so, asking for a divorce during the holidays may be warranted
There is never a great day to ask for a divorce. If handled correctly, the divorce proceedings can progress in a collaborative instead of an adversarial manner.
The collaborative divorce process encourages co-parenting, communication and compassion for each partner. It puts the emotional well-being of your children at the forefront of your decision-making process.
For over 17 years, working as a Family Law Attorney/Mediator, Kevin Chroman has helped numerous couples reach harmonious agreements on divorce, child custody and spousal support through mediation and the collaborative law process.
Reach an agreement with your spouse in the peaceful, cooperative environment created by the Law Office of Kevin J. Chroman. For a free consultation, contact us today!
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Note: This information is general in nature and should not be construed as legal/financial/tax/or mental health advice. You should work with your attorney, financial, mental or tax professional to determine what will work best for your situatio
About Kevin J. Chroman
After graduating from law school 20 years ago, Kevin J. Chroman worked with another law firm for two years.
Attorney Chroman became a strong advocate for mediation and family law, and eventually moved into those practice areas and opened his own firm.